Friday, 9 May 2008

The myth of love!

True love is something which we crave for. Being indulged in this busy world, everyone looks for the warmth of love. What is love? Love is myth. Everyone has a description of ones love. The realities of love are: Love is warm, it makes you happy, and no matter how distant you are there is love. It’s a sweet feeling. It is not attraction or lust or infatuation. It makes even the most arrogant soft and weak. Love cannot hurt, but there has to be love, if you can forget the one who hurt you the most.


Strangeness of love is: love gives a lot of pain. Pain of love hurts, makes your cry, makes you in a state of hibernation and makes your numb and weak. No matter how much ever you try to redirect your energy and thoughts, it’s always there with you. It makes you become strong and stronger. Then there could be this period where you love one with out paining your self (????) May be …(???) True love can never be forgotten. There is no ‘break-up’, in fact there can’t be any! It’s unconditional, no rules, no expectations, no judgments, and is absolutely being least possessive. You accept your love ‘as such’.


Imagine living with such a myth having all your loved ones continents away from you… Isn’t it a reality with a myth? Isn’t it truly a myth (???)!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

yeah very true.seems like you have one of them either Love or Pain.Else the myth of love is not understood by everybody

Blasphemy said...

I am at loss when it comes to this word. Any rational post mortem in the mind leads to the inescapable conclusion. Love is between joy and pain. Why so? Is it an illusion? Is it a game!. Are there rules.! What does it want. I have asked a million questions to hold it strong, but at the end, it pains! Its a strange thing indeed..

Maya said...
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Maya said...

Yes..the same Maya with Nandini. How have you been? With whatever i could get from your blog, looks like you are doing pretty well for yourself. Enjoy life to the maximum..no place for myth here!

Hari said...

Myth: No!

If you have done it with all your heart, truly, it should be real. Cannot be myth because somebody didn't reciprocate to your realness.

Illusion: Yes!
The 'reality' lasts only till you live, if you are lucky enough.

Pain: Yes! [On a scale of 10]
0: If you get more than what you deserve / expectations.
5: If you are not getting what you deserve.
10: If you get something that you don't deserve or expected at all [like being not understood/cheated/humiliated, etc].